by Abyssal Hoops
"...I just got a warm feeling in my uterus. Felt great!
I love Subculture!
I come to Subculture every day to obtain my flow states. To read. To write. Talk to my friends. The environment is so much better than my house. I have the freedom to daydream and allow my imagination to soar.
I just read Flow by […Abbi turns turns the cover of Mihaly Csikszentmihaly’s national bestseller…] -- I don’t even try, I call him M.C. He talks about flow as the key to optimal experience. In a career, sex, in life. It’s physical, mental, sexual. And flow is actually all about organization.
When I’m hula hooping, I have a very small stage. I have to concentrate on dancing to the music. Watch for drunk people at my feet. All while organizing my tricks to have an excellent performance.
Everyone looks and sees a girl having fun. It may seem completely physical. But, flow is mental too. There’s a million things going through my head. I’m organizing. Only then can I let go and achieve flow.
[...Abbi reads…] “Without systems for ordering information, even the clearest memory will find consciousness in a state of chaos.”
The more complex something is, the more organization that is needed, the more flow is achieved. You can’t get to a flow state without being completely focused.
I can’t believe I get paid to do what I love. I hoop and go on amazing adventurez. But, even that state of flow is achieved through all the hard work I put in with making videos, a website, training and learning tricks. Organization is the key to flow.
It’s the same with sex. Flow is extremely sexual. When you’re able to obtain a flow state when having sex, it is an optimal experience. How do I put this into wordz? Experiencing another person manifesting their reality with me as an intimate part of it creates a whole new world. I like to be submissive to that, but my world could be working in other ways, I don’t know. In that I want to offer that experience. I like flow with monogamy. That’s the organization that’s best to be able to let go with passion. Monogamy is a focus. You really know that person. Flow in a relationship is fuckin’ ecstasy.
M.C. talks about how sports can be compared to romance in that most people are […Abbi points at text…] “content to hear about it or watch a few experts perform it.” How boring is that!!! Romance can be the source of flow. Then take it to the concert, or to the stage.
Ahh, I love having my flow job! Oh, hahahahahaha…Flow job..."